By Rev Lauren Van Ham
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Isn’t it amazing how gentle Earth is with us? She’s so patient.
A couple months ago, my husband and I were in the car at 4:30 in the morning. We were returning to San Francisco from San Diego, and attempting to get ahead of the traffic we would encounter through Los Angeles. I was at the wheel. To my left was the Pacific Ocean spanning left-to-right; and shining from above? Luna! The full moon was reflecting a steady, kind glow saturating the water’s surface. I was without words and Valentino, in his half-asleep state said, “Isn’t it amazing how gentle Earth is with us? She’s so patient.”
In his final chapter of Becoming Gaia: On the Threshold of Planetary Initiation, Sean Kelly explores what life in the End Times might look like, beyond hope, beyond despair. Kelly’s invitation is courageous and soulful. He mentions Edgar Morin, a French philosopher and sociologist whose work describes a “deep religion.” Morin writes, “Such a religion would lack any providence, any shining hereafter, but would bind us together as fellows in the unknown adventures. Such a religion would not have promises but roots: roots in our cultures… in planetary and human history; roots in life [and] the stars that have forged the atoms of which we are made; roots in the cosmos where the particles were born and out of which our atoms were made…. Such a religion would involve a belief, like all religions but, unlike other religions that repress doubt through excessive zeal, it would make room for doubt within itself. It would look out onto the abyss.” (1)
We felt Earth’s fierce love and grounded equanimity.
Since reading his Deep Adaptation paper in 2018, I have been moved by Jem Bendell’s suggestion of the 4 Rs and the framework they provide.(2) When Bendell bravely offered additional thoughts on the 4th R, Reconciliation, as a pathway for embracing uncertainty and living joyfully within the temporary nature of our one, miraculous (and terminal) life, he most definitely pointed to the religion Morin describes.
Reverence connects us to what has been, what is, and all that will be.
Adding Reverence to the other 4 Rs creates dimension, depth, a home to which we can return after venturing out into acts of Relinquishment, Restoration, or Reconciliation. Like some of you, I’ve found it useful in my work to see how the Work that Reconnects Spiral dances with the Rs. I welcome your input, and the graphic below attempts to give a visual for the way I see the two informing one other.
Reverence is Gratitude. We begin from this place, we return to it when life gets wobbly, and sometimes it finds us when we least expect it. Relinquishment feels kin to Honoring Our Pain. In Relinquishment, we acknowledge our losses; we speak to the truth of our grief as well as the liberation or relief that is sometimes wrapped up in there. Restoration and Reconciliation are both forms of Seeing with New Eyes. Each of these Rs is active and invites us to be about resisting, persisting, and feeding what we want in the world.
Resilience is less about where we begin and much more about what we become.
Resilience visits each R and thanks to each encounter, it invites greater communication and appreciation of the others. Energetically, Resilience and Reverence, become the Above and Below, our Spirit and Soul in relationship with the fullness of Birth, Life, Death, and Regeneration.
Reverence asks us to unlearn the recent ways and to remember the ancient ones.
(1) Kelly, Sean. (2021) Becoming Gaia. Integral Imprint Publishing. pp. 176-77
(2) Bendell, Jem. (2018). Deep Adaptation: A Map for Navigating Climate Tragedy. https://jembendell.com/2019/05/15/deep-adaptation-versions/.
Born and raised beneath the big sky of the Midwest, Lauren holds degrees from Carnegie Mellon University, Naropa University and The Chaplaincy Institute. Following her ordination in 1999, Lauren served as an interfaith chaplain in both healthcare (adolescent psychiatry and palliative care), and corporate settings (organizational development and employee wellness). Lauren’s passion for spirituality, art and Earth’s teachings have supported her specialization in eco-ministry, grief & loss, and sacred activism. Her essay, “Way of the Eco-Chaplain,” appears in the collection, Ways of the Spirit: Voices of Women; and her work with Green Sangha is featured in Renewal, a documentary celebrating the efforts of religious environmental activists from diverse faith traditions across America. Currently, Lauren tends her private spiritual direction and eco-chaplaincy consulting practice; and serves as Climate Action Coordinator for the United Religions Initiative (URI). She is guest faculty for several schools in the San Francisco Bay Area and a founding member of Project Adapt, a group using the 5Rs to support everyone in our current moment.
Biography recorded by Rebecca Selove